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Breastfed infants are 80% less likely to die before age 1 year than those who never breastfed, even controlling for low birth weight.  Breastfeeding is the most effective way to insure your baby’s health and survival.   That’s a pretty impressive, yet globally, only 40% of babies under six months are exclusively breastfed.

Breastfeeding is also really good for Mom’s health.  Women who breastfeed for more than twelve months during their lifetime tend to have lower risk of high blood pressure, high cholesterol, heart disease, and diabetes. Breastfeeding has also been shown to reduce the risk of breast, ovarian, and endometrial cancer in a mother’s later life and may reduce the risk of osteoporosis. Perhaps best of all, breastfeeding women use the weight (fat stores) they accumulated during pregnancy to produce breast milk. Breastfeeding mom’s burn an additional 500 calories a day.  Wow!  A simple, relatively easy way to lose baby weight.

Baby benefits from breast milk too.  It is the food least likely to cause allergic reactions; it is inexpensive; it reduces the risk of SIDS; it is readily available at any hour of the day or night; babies accept the taste readily; and the antibodies in breast milk can help a baby resist infections.

Breast Milk is the Best Food for Baby

 

If both Mom and Baby benefit from breastfeeding, then what’s the problem?  While baby instinctively knows exactly what to do, for Mom breastfeeding has to be learned.  Many women need support and advice as they begin breastfeeding.  Some women experience nipple pain and fear that baby won’t get enough milk. Once past those initial challenges, more than half the mothers of infants will return to work.  While companies are supposed to provide a clean place (not the bathroom) for a working mom to pump, breastfeeding friendly companies are still relatively rare.

It is possible to work full-time and successfully breastfeed but it takes commitment and planning.  The best time to work through a breastfeeding plan is actually before the baby is born.  Find out what the company’s policy is for supporting breastfeeding moms.  Talk with other working moms and healthcare providers about the options for pumping.  There are lots of different types of breast pumps available both for rental and purchase. There is a breast pump that fits every mother’s needs.

Finally, don’t go into breastfeeding with the belief that it’s all sunshine and fun.  Breastfeeding is an evolving activity.  Mom and baby develop a rhythm over time.  Ultimately, breastfeeding is one of the most satisfying, enjoyable activities a mother will every do with her infant.

 

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Bedsharing isn't always pretty

Bedsharing proponents generally fall into one of two camps. The first kind is the “attachment parenting” type of parent that strongly believes that it is in the best interest of the baby to share a sleep space with the parents from birth. These parents will sometimes have a “family bed” where everyone in the family shares the same sleep space. Bonding and the emotional well-being of the baby is often sited as a primary goal for this group.

The second and most common group is the parents that have a crib or bassinet for their baby and plan for precious child to sleep the night through in his or her crib.  Unfortunately, no one informed junior of that plan.  After a night of singing, walking, rocking their darling, wide-eyed, screaming baby – these exhausted, anxious parents bring baby into bed with them because they can’t keep their eyes open one more moment and they have to get to work the next morning.  So in complete desperation they bring baby into bed with them in the frantic hope that they will get just 5 minutes of good sleep before the alarm goes off. This type of bedsharing parent is often referred to as the “Chaotic bedsharer”.

There is a raging debate amongst parents and professionals.  Advocates of bedsharing believe that it is:

  • Natural
  • Historical (It’s been done since the beginning of time.)
  • Facilitates breastfeeding
  • Helps with Bonding
  • Assists baby with healthy emotional development
  • Increases both parental and infant sleep time

Opponents of bedsharing believe that it is dangerous for the infant less than one year of age because it can increase the risk of Sudden Infant Death Syndrome (SIDS), accidental suffocation by overlay or by entrapment.

Whatever your belief, I think that we can all agree that neither parent is “evil” because they choose to bedshare.  But, the photo tells a truer picture of a night spent with a baby.  So, regardless of your parenting style, be prepared for a foot in your nose and another foot in your kidneys!  I wish all you parents a pleasant – “Good Night.”

Many thanks to bellyitchblog.com for this great photo!


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